Linda...don't feel bad. Many people were frustrated. I just felt that things were headed down the wrong road, so I locked the thread.
Thanks for caring enough to apologize.
I'm sorry if I stepped over the line on the now closed thread about Katya. I certainly wasn't trying to get her to unsub--just to be honest. And if I wasn't "polite" enough in doing that I really am sorry.
Linda
Linda...don't feel bad. Many people were frustrated. I just felt that things were headed down the wrong road, so I locked the thread.
Thanks for caring enough to apologize.
It is very nice of you to apologize. [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]
I heard she got a new username anyway. [img]biggrin.gif[/img]
She was using her new user name here today, and then she deleted her account.
Joy
Sometimes I think Katya should apologize to the rest of the board for her behavior.
It is not nice to keep changing your user name or post as other people. It confuses everyone and leads to lots of unneeded posting (who was that? what is happening).
As we all know, trust is the basis of friendship.
LindaL you should not feel badly for pointing out the inconsistencies that confuse us all. It is nice of you to apologize, but I don't think you did anything wrong.
<font color="#33CCCC" size="1">[ April 03, 2006 05:31 PM: Message edited by: djsnjones ]</font>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I don't like seeing someone disparaged like that.Originally posted by MissMooMoo:
Sometimes I think Katya should apologize to the rest of the board for her behavior.
It is not nice to keep changing your user name or post as other people. It confuses everyone and leads to lots of unneeded posting (who was that? what is happening).
As we all know, trust is the basis of friendship.
LindaL you should not feel badly for pointing out the inconsistencies that confuse us all. It is nice of you to apologize, but I don't think you did anything wrong.
I think I know why she left too, or at lest why she might have gone away in the first place. Somebody on this board (not naming names) made some mean comments about multiple personality disorder and some pretty discourteous and offensive other comments as well. I was deeply hurt by them because I have this disorder a long with OCD (not going to get into it, just thought I?d let you know why this was so offending to me).
I even considered leaving the board too. It?s a good thing I have a travel doll out there though???
So I PM?ed this ?Gone away lake? and asked her politely if she was Marisol_Grace_Girl?.. She responded very nicely saying that she was. The point is that at lest I had the sagacity to talk to her about this PRIVETLY. I don?t think any one has any business talking about this publicly on the board were hundreds of people will read it.
The golden rule of netiquette is to remember the human. Meaning, you should always remember that there is a real person out there somewhere reading what you write. This person like you has ways of thinking, point of views, emotions, feelings, and an ego.
Gone away lake, or Marisol_Grace_Girl, is a very nice person. And I would hate for you too not see that. You don?t have to like her, but please, remember the human.
<font color="#33CCCC" size="1">[ April 03, 2006 06:05 PM: Message edited by: djsnjones ]</font>
I agree that it is hard to trust Katya.
<font color="#33CCCC" size="1">[ April 03, 2006 05:35 PM: Message edited by: djsnjones ]</font>
I wasn't on the board when she was being discourtious but I remember reading about when she left. I think I am about as old as her and I got off to a rough start, but when I apologized everyone forgave me.
<font color="#33CCCC" size="1">[ April 03, 2006 05:44 PM: Message edited by: djsnjones ]</font>
<font size="2" face="Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">You know, it isn't very nice to talk about people when they aren't around. It's called back stabbing.Originally posted by AGfanatic:
I agree that it is hard to trust Katya.
Did you even listen to me?
"The golden rule of netiquette is too always remember the human. Meaning, you should always remember that there is a real person out there somewhere reading what you write. This person like you has ways of thinking, point of views, emotions, feelings, and an ego.
Gone away lake, or Marisol_Grace_Girl, is a very nice person. And I would hate for you to not see that. You don?t have to like her, but please, remember the human."
I agree she wasn?t as ingenuous as she should have been, but please, try to be nice about it! We are all a very nice group of people here who just come to talk nicely to other people about AG, not about this person doing this, or this person doing that.
I don?t want to be mean, I just want to end the hostility.
<font color="#33CCCC" size="1">[ April 03, 2006 05:46 PM: Message edited by: djsnjones ]</font>
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